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How to prepare your child for starting nursery: 10 helpful tips

13 January 2026 Sarah Charlton

Starting nursery is a big moment for both you and your child. It’s normal to feel excited, nervous (or both!).

At Ark Start, we support children and families during this transition by inviting families to attend stay and play sessions before they start, and by conducting home visits for all families. This is all to ensure they feel relaxed and confident coming to nursery from day one.

You can also help make the transition even smoother and more positive. Here are some steps you can take:

10 ways to help your child get ready for nursery

1. Visit the nursery together

Take your child for a visit to the nursery before they start. Familiarize them with the environment, their new teachers, and the other children. This can help reduce anxiety about the new setting.

2. Talk positively about nursery

Have positive conversations about nursery. Explain to your child what nursery is, what they might do there, and how it can be fun. Answer any questions they have.

3. Read books about starting nursery

Read books about starting nursery or school – some of these are great: Spot loves Nursery by Eric Hill, The Colour Monster Goes to School by Anna Llenas, Starting School by Janet and Allen Ahlberg and Hugless Douglas Goes to Little School by David Melling. Reading about nursery and school can help your child understand and feel more comfortable about the idea.

4. Establish a nursery-style routine

If possible, establish a daily routine that mirrors what your child will experience at nursery. This can include set times for meals, naps, and play activities.

5. Practice short separations

Gradually introduce short periods of separation. Leave your child with a trusted family member or friend for a short time, gradually increasing the duration. This can help your child get used to being away from you.

6. Encourage socialisation

Arrange playdates with other children. This can help your child develop social skills and become more comfortable interacting with other children.

7. Build independence through every day tasks

Encourage your child to do things on their own, such as dressing themselves, using the toilet, and washing their hands. These skills will make them feel more confident at nursery.

8. Label emotions

Teach your child about how to name their emotions and express them. Explain that it’s okay to feel excited, nervous, or a mix of emotions about starting nursery.

9. Keep goodbyes short and reassuring

When the time comes to start nursery, make goodbyes positive but brief. Assure your child that you will be back to pick them up, or tell them if it’s going to be someone else.

10. Stay calm

Children often pick up on their parents’ emotions. Stay positive and calm when discussing nursery and during drop-offs.

And remember…

Every child is different. Some may adjust to nursery quickly, while others might need more time. Be patient, supportive, and understanding as your child navigates this new experience.

We know that mornings can be a challenge. That’s why we do everything we can to create a calm, positive and warm start to the day for our families.